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Overcoming Social Anxiety with CBT

Updated: Apr 18


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Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a widely recognized and effective approach for treating social anxiety. It focuses on identifying and challenging negative thought patterns and behaviours associated with social anxiety, ultimately helping individuals develop healthier coping strategies. Here's a step-by-step overview of how CBT can be used to overcome social anxiety:

  1. Education: Understand what social anxiety is and how it affects your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. Recognize that it's a common condition and that many people experience it.

  2. Self-Monitoring: Keep a journal to track situations that trigger your social anxiety, your thoughts during those situations, your physical reactions, and the behaviours you engage in as a result.

  3. Identify Negative Thoughts: Recognize and record the negative thoughts that arise in social situations. These could be self-critical or overly negative beliefs about how others perceive you.

  4. Challenge Negative Thoughts: Evaluate the evidence for and against your negative thoughts. Are there any alternative explanations that are more rational and balanced? Consider the worst-case scenario and the likelihood of it occurring.

  5. Cognitive Restructuring: Replace negative thoughts with more realistic and positive ones. This process involves reframing your beliefs to be more accurate and constructive. For example, replace "Everyone is looking at me and judging me" with "It's possible that people aren't paying as much attention to me as I think."

  6. Exposure Therapy: Gradually face your feared social situations in a controlled and systematic manner. Start with situations that provoke mild anxiety and work your way up to more challenging scenarios. Exposure helps desensitize you to the anxiety triggers.

  7. Relaxation Techniques: Learn and practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and mindfulness. These techniques can help reduce the physical symptoms of anxiety.

  8. Social Skills Training: Develop and enhance your social skills through role-playing, communication exercises, and assertiveness training. Building your social skills can increase your confidence in social situations.

  9. Behavioural Experiments: Test the accuracy of your negative beliefs through behavioural experiments. For instance, if you believe that people will think negatively of you if you express your opinion, intentionally express your opinion in a safe environment and observe the actual reactions.

  10. Positive Reinforcement: Reward yourself for facing your social anxiety and gradually conquering your fears. Celebrate your progress, no matter how small.

  11. Maintenance and Relapse Prevention: Continue practicing the skills you've learned even after you've made progress. Social anxiety may recur during times of stress, so having strategies to manage it is essential.

  12. Professional Guidance: While self-help resources can be valuable, working with a trained therapist experienced in CBT is often recommended for overcoming social anxiety. A therapist can provide personalized guidance, feedback, and support.

Remember that progress takes time, and it's normal to experience setbacks along the way. CBT is a process, and the goal is gradual improvement rather than immediate perfection. Additionally, consider combining CBT with other supportive strategies such as regular exercise, a healthy lifestyle, and a strong social support network.





By Ben Lea, CBT Therapist, Congleton, Cheshire

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